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A Road Map for Hard Times

The current economy presents some challenges. For many, these are fearful times. The future is uncertain and anxiety rules… the perfect mix for a toxic situation. How the crisis is handled can make the difference between years of hardship and climbing to the next personal and professional plateau. Giving way to despair will not help [...]

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Handling Rejection with Style

“A rejection is nothing more than a necessary step in the pursuit of success.” – Bo Bennett One of the major roadblocks to self-expression is the fear of rejection. People will go to their grave with the song still in them because of that fear. Wonderful opportunities have been lost and the quality of life [...]

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The Importance of a Life’s Purpose

“Great minds have purposes, little minds have wishes.” – Irving Washington Every moment that we are awake, the little chatterbox in our mind is active. It’s a bit like a radio that cannot be shut off and, just like a radio; we have many different stations that we can tune in. Some of these stations [...]

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Assimilating Self-improvement Technologies

Self-improvement is first and foremost a shedding process. It’s about getting rid disempowering beliefs. It about letting go of the negative past. It’s about erasing the scars of frustrations. It about getting rid of negative friends and acquaintances. It’s about erasing the slate of negativities and starting anew. It may be hard to believe but [...]

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Feeling Good À la Carte

Feeling good is an art. It’s an art that can be learned, practiced and refined. We don’t need to wait for outside influences to make us feel good. It is possible to feel good most of the time and it’s also possible to feel good for no reason at all. For that though, we need [...]

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How to Avoid the Specter of Fear

Fear has to be one of the most unpleasant emotions on the face of Planet Earth. For that reason, the quest for some sort of security is an ongoing process for many people. Some people will seek safety through Divine intervention through prayers. Others will do it by gathering as much money as possible. We [...]

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Scanning the Brain for Virus and Malwares

Our computers are equipped with Anti-virus programs that will hopefully stop any malware from infecting our hardrive and affect the performance of our beloved PC. These programs are quite effective but, just to make sure that we have no bugs, we perform periodical scans. Unfortunately, our brain is not equipped with any Anti-virus program and, [...]

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The New Reality of Consistency

“One of the strongest forces in the human organism is the need for consistency.” – Anthony Robbins We need consistency to establish some certainty and order in our world. What we don’t need is rigid consistency where everything becomes so familiar and so automatic that we go through life half asleep, half hypnotized and simply [...]

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Fueling on High Octane for More Personal Power

Personal Power has been defined as the ability to take action. On the other hand, it is a well-known fact that the worst stumbling block on the way to success and personal accomplishment is the inability to take action. Most people know what to do to succeed but can’t seem to get themselves to take [...]

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How to Increase Willpower and Self-control

The brain, like a computer, needs to be studied and understood before it can be used effectively. In order to be able to increase the effectiveness of our willpower and self-control we need to know what directs our behavior. There are two main forces controlling every action that we take and every decision that we [...]

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The Power of Certainty – The Winner’s Edge

“If you develop the absolute sense of certainty that powerful beliefs provide, then you can get yourself to accomplish virtually anything, including those things that other people are certain are impossible.” — William Lyon Phelps Certainty is a double edge sword. It can propel someone to incredible heights as it can stifle knowledge and enlightenment. [...]

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How to Be in Control of Your Life

There are two completely opposite basic human needs. One of those is the need for certainty and the other one is the need for uncertainty. We need a certain degree of certainty to be able to function normally and we need some uncertainty to break up the monotony. If we had complete certainty, life would [...]

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How to Make Better Decisions

“I believe that it’s in your moments of decision that your destiny is shaped.” – Anthony Robbins Our decisions have taken us to where we presently are in life and decisions will, to a large extent, determine our destiny. It is our decisions that have produced the level of success that we are now enjoying [...]

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How to Stay Positive

First, let’s define what being positive means. Being positive is having faith in the future. It means having an optimistic expectancy and knowing that we will prevail. It’s also focusing on possible solution and not being overwhelmed by the possible consequences of failure. It means being willing, ready and able to tackle life’s problems, no [...]

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Communication – It’s Who You Are that Counts

The purpose of a communication is to get a specific message across and hopefully to have your point of view accepted. To a certain extent, the effectiveness of that communication will be due to the rhetoric used. But that’s only a small part of the picture. The most important factor in any communication is the [...]

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The Art and Science of Self-improvement

According to a Marketdata Enterprises market report, the U.S. self-improvement market is worth $9.6 Billion. No doubt it is a huge industry. So huge in fact that it is easy for the neophyte and even for the long time adept to get lost in it. Most everyone interested in self-development is looking for the fastest [...]

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Don’t Cheat Yourself – Live With Passion

“At one time in our lives, we all had a vision for the quality of life that we desire and deserve. Yet, for many of us, those dreams have become so shrouded in the frustration and routines of daily life that we no longer even make an effort to accomplish them. For far too many, [...]

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There is Plenty of Money in the World

The fact is that there is plenty of money in the world. There are also billions of ways to create value that could increase even more the available wealth. Now, with all that abundance floating around, how come the “scarcity mentality” is so prevalent? Why is it that most people believe that there is not [...]

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Designing a Life – Planning a Life’s Path

Most people will spend more time planning a two-week vacation than they will planning their life. Of course no one would even dream of building a house without having a plan or even go on a trip without a specific plan however when it comes to designing a life, in many cases, wisdom is thrown [...]

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How to Enjoy Life to its Fullest

“I am a work in progress, dressed in the fabric of a world unfolding, offering me intricate patterns of questions, rhythms that never come clean, and strengths that you still haven’t seen.” –Ani DiFranco Life is a gift that was graciously given at birth. It came with no specific instruction and it is for us [...]

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