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The Reason that we Act the Way that we Do

As we forge our way through life, we are guided by our values and our personal map of the world. These two elements determine the way that we think and the way that we act. An understanding of this guiding mechanism is essential for anyone who wants mastery over his own life. Albert Einstein said, [...]

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How to Get Real and Stay Positive

To be positive does not mean hiding the head in the sand and pretending that all is well when it’s not. If your shirt is on fire, it needs to be attended to. If you’re living off your credit cards, you are not in the land of plenty even if you’ve read The Secret and [...]

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The Highway to Personal Growth

If it matters, put it down on paper… The best way to grow is by translating our thoughts into written the words. We tend to think in wordless notions, abstract concepts and images. Most of our thoughts are vague and ephemeral. If a conscious effort is not made to put some order in our thinking [...]

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The Quest for Personal Growth

Life never stands still. It is either on the upward trajectory of growth or on the declining path of impending extinction. As humans, it leaves us with two options; we can let nature and outside circumstances follow their natural course or we can pursue the quest for personal growth and self-actualization. We are never too [...]

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Advice for Rough Times – How to Change your Karma

The EST guru, Werner Erhard, used to say jokingly, “Your karma is what happens to you and what happens to you is your karma.” When things are going well for us, that type of circular reasoning might be funny but when nothing works and it appears that the sky is about to fall on our [...]

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How to Exploit our Full Potential

The mind can be compared to a muscle. With exercise they grow and when unused they atrophy. A muscle grows when it fights against resistance and so does the brain. In either case, the greater the resistance, the greater the growth. The muscle grows by struggling with physical forces and the brain grows through reasoning. [...]

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How To Feel Good All the Time

One of the problem with the human mind is that it finds it very hard to grasp extremes. A very simple truth is just as hard to be accepted as a bold faced lie. So, if we want to accept a simple truth, what we have to do is complicate it enough so that we [...]

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How to Communicate and Deal With People

One of the most widely accepted misconception about people is that we are creature of logic. Nothing could be farther from the truth. Dale Carnegie said it best when he said, “When dealing with people, let us remember we are not dealing with creatures of logic. We are dealing with creatures of emotion, creatures bustling [...]

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Communication 102 – Getting the Message Across

Ralph Waldo Emerson said, “Who you are speaks so loudly I can’t hear what you’re saying.” The man was right. The words that we use matter little, the message that we convey starts and ends with whatever is in the heart. When it comes to communicating, the heart will always prevail over the brain. With [...]

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The Highway to Self-Actualization

The major reason that we set goals and objectives should be because it’s one of the best possible way of optimizing the talents that we were given at birth and in doing so, become all that we can be. The process is also called self-actualization. We were born with noting but potential for growth and [...]

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How to Handle the Fear of Rejection

No one will dispute the fact that fear of rejection is one of the major reason why people fail to take action. Dreams are put on the shelves and some of the more promising projects will never see the light of day because of that fear. Anyone who ever hopes to achieve anything significant will [...]

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The Actualization of our Potential

Most people who are in Personal Development set goals and objectives. That is highly commendable. That’s part of Personal Development 101. One of the first thing that we learn when we start studying the subject. No book on self-improvement ever fails to cover goal setting however what is often missed is the real reason that [...]

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The Dream Killer – How to Avoid It

These are the opening words of the fantastic book by Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within. ‘WE ALL HAVE DREAMS… We all want to believe deep down in our souls that we have a special gift, that we can make a difference, that we can touch others in a special way, and that we can [...]

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Winning through intimidation

In 1970, Robert J. Ringer came out with the book, Winning through intimidation. Millions of copies were sold but now the book is no longer being printed and Amazon.com has only one new copy left priced at $143.58 and a few used ones in the twenty dollar range. But, it’s a very simple book and [...]

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About personal development

Personal development means exactly what the words imply, it’s a quest to develop inherent qualities, abilities and resources in the individual. Contrary to popular beliefs, it is not restricted to material success. Material success does not imply a successful, meaningful and rewarding life. Personal development does include all these factor plus the ability to perform [...]

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Reading a Personal Development Book

Reading a Personal Development book and doing it in a way that will contribute to our life is not an easy task. It requires time, effort and dedication. We don’t read such a book to see what’s in it. We read it in an effort to change who we are, change the distinctions that we [...]

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How to find personal happiness

I strongly believe that the high level of happiness that I’ve enjoyed throughout my life is due to the fact that I never demanded much from life. Most of the time, being alive and not hurting is all that was required to keep me in a happy frame of mind. Life truly is a gift. [...]

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Respect, where does it start, where does it ends?

Should a terrorist be respected? Should a killer be respected? Respect, where does it start, where does it ends? Profound questions not often addressed. First, it must be understood that without respect, communication is impossible and without communication there cannot be improvement in any situation. Without respect, the law of the jungle predominate. Lack of [...]

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Connecting and bonding with people

In order to communicate with people a rapport has to be established. This rapport is also known as connecting or bonding. A rapport is established when there is mutual acceptance and willingness in the part of the parties involved to reach an acceptable conclusion on a specific matter. So long as this rapport is not [...]

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Stress and PTC

It would not be an overstatement to say that stress is today’s public enemy number one. This is what leaders in stress research have to say, “Stress reaction is predicted to be the leading occupational disease of the 21st century, responsible for more days lost than any other single factor.” Almost everyone is adversely affected [...]

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