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Changing the Self-image

Few things are as important in life as a winning self-image. The self-image is the lens through which we see the world. The main difference between the guy who’s sitting on top of the world and the guys who feels that he carries the weight of the world on his shoulders is the self-image.
In [...]

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Building Self-confidence and Self-esteem

There is a little guy hiding inside our brain that watches and evaluate everything that we do. That little fellow is in charge of setting the mark that will determine our level of self-confidence and self-esteem. Sigmund Freud gave the little guy a name. He called him the Super-ego. That’s his real name, however we [...]

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Stick to the Basics and Succeed

“Success is neither magical nor mysterious. Success is the natural consequence of consistently applying the basic fundamentals.” – Jim Rohn
Reading self-improvement books serves an essential purpose however that purpose is not what you may think it is. We read self-improvement books because they motivate and inspire. Not because they inform. We already know what [...]

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Is Life Easier for Self-improvement Aficionados?

Let’s put it this way, life will never be as great as your favorite guru would like you to believe but, if you put enough work on improving yourself, you will see a major change. That’s not saying that you no longer will face challenges. Everyone does. Even Tony Robbins had to face bankruptcy at [...]

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The Process of Self-actualization

“Not only do you have to decide what results you are committed to, but also the kind of person that you’re committed to becoming.” – Anthony Robbins
Basically, self-actualization means working toward becoming all that we can be. It should be a process that starts at birth and last until the last curtain falls. Unfortunately, such [...]

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How to Avoid Frustration

“To live for results would be to sentence myself to continuous frustration. My only sure reward is in my actions and not from them.” – Hugh Prather
Crushed expectancies create frustration which in turn leads to crushed self-image, blows to self-worth and major damage to self-confidence. The number one cause of procrastination is the very real [...]

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How to Avoid the Specter of Fear

Fear has to be one of the most unpleasant emotions on the face of Planet Earth. For that reason, the quest for some sort of security is an ongoing process for many people. Some people will seek safety through Divine intervention through prayers. Others will do it by gathering as much money as possible. We [...]

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The Efforts of Excellence or the Pains of Regrets

“The quality of a person’s life is in direct proportion to their commitment to excellence, regardless of their chosen field of endeavor.” – Vincent Lombardi
We love heroes. We love to see these people who are totally committed to a cause and who are willing to pay the price that it takes to win and achieve. [...]

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The New Reality of Consistency

“One of the strongest forces in the human organism is the need for consistency.” – Anthony Robbins
We need consistency to establish some certainty and order in our world. What we don’t need is rigid consistency where everything becomes so familiar and so automatic that we go through life half asleep, half hypnotized and simply reacting [...]

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If You Can’t Get Going – Get Angry!

There comes a time in our life when something needs to be done. The status quo is no longer acceptable and major changes in our life become mandatory. That is when anger can come to the rescue.
There is no such thing as a good or bad emotion. It always depends on how, where and [...]

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Fueling on High Octane for More Personal Power

Personal Power has been defined as the ability to take action. On the other hand, it is a well-known fact that the worst stumbling block on the way to success and personal accomplishment is the inability to take action. Most people know what to do to succeed but can’t seem to get themselves to take [...]

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The Path to Excellence — Deliberate Practice

Scientific studies have found that, contrary to popular beliefs, innate abilities are not the major factor in achieving excellence in any sphere of endeavor. We are not born with predispositions to excel in particular skills; those are learned.
Even in the cases of child prodigies, studies have found that the predominant factor behind their exceptional skill [...]

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Perception is Everything

To succeed in any field of endeavor we must communicate. That’s how we get our message across and influence people. It’s how we get people to buy our product, accept our ideas or come to accept our way of thinking. It’s how we get the things that we want out of life.
Communications are not [...]

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How to Be in Control of Your Life

There are two completely opposite basic human needs. One of those is the need for certainty and the other one is the need for uncertainty. We need a certain degree of certainty to be able to function normally and we need some uncertainty to break up the monotony. If we had complete certainty, life would [...]

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The Need for Significance

One of the basic and fundamental human needs is the need for significance. We need to feel that we are important, that we matter. For many of us, significance may be our most important need. It may be even more than that. It may be the prime motivation for most of our decisions, actions and [...]

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Man’s Search for Motivation

With enough motivation, anything is possible. Without it, everything is an uphill battle. When the going is good, being motivated is easy; when the going gets rough, that’s another story. However, motivation under rough conditions is what is needed the most. That’s when a man’s true colors shine through.
Motivation under pressure is a question [...]

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Push your Limits – Dare to Grow

The quote, “You never really know what you are capable of, until you go out and try.” has been attributed to the award winning actress Sarah Michelle Gellar but is has to be one of the most overused cliché on Planet Earth. So overused in fact that it no longer means anything. That’s a tragedy. [...]

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How to Acquire Self-esteem

Having a healthy self-esteem is probably the greatest asset that we could ever have. No more hurt from disparaging remarks; self-confidence galore and the ability to meet anyone on even ground. The ability to go through life with the feeling that we may be different from anyone else but that we are not inferior in [...]

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Personal Rules – And How they Affect Us

We created for ourselves personal rules regarding every facets of our lives. We are the one who decided what is takes for us to be happy. We decided what success means for us and we even decided what success was. We decided what our personal standards are, what we expect of ourselves what is acceptable [...]

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Dragon Slaying Versus the Comfort Zone

Mark Twain said, “Twenty years from now you will be more disappointed by the things you didn’t do than by the ones you did do. So throw off the bowlines. Sail away from the safe harbor. Catch the trade winds in your sails. Explore. Dream. Discover.”
The story of evolution is a tale of [...]

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