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Exposing The Nature Of Regrets And Remorse

Some very wise man said, “Regret is insight that comes a day too late.” That wise man could also have added that regret is probably the most useless emotion under the face of the Earth. It is disempowering and serves no good purpose.
We made a bad choice, we did something that brought us grief and [...]

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Ethic A Tool For Success

There are three ways that we can reach the top pinnacle of success: it can be done illegally, lawfully or ethically. Out of these three options, one is short lived, one is not satisfactory and one is the smart and wise thing to do.
No one will deny the fact that some people have made tons [...]

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What They Will Not Teach You At Harvard or Yale

“Formal education will make you a living; self-education will make you a fortune.” Jim Rohn
One thing that they will never teach you in any school, college or university is the fact that your real education starts on the day that you receive your diploma and leave school. Until that day, all that you’ve been doing [...]

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The Making of a Champion

Champions are not born, they are made, self-made. They are self-made and they share a common trait; they all want to win more than anybody else… there lays their main secret. Winning and desire are two words that go together; you can’t have one without the other. They are like Siamese twin, inseparable.
Napoleon Hill [...]

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Why Self-improvement Might Not Work For You

You’ve read a few books on self-improvement, attended a few lectures on the subject and even attended a seminar but somehow nothing seems to change. At first, you were quite enthusiastic and felt upbeat for a while but then, the enthusiasm evaporated and now, it’s as if you had never heard of self-improvement in the [...]

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Getting Lost in Personal Drama V/S Creating a Life

Personal drama… almost everyone has one. The issue with the job, the kids who are acting up and going nowhere, the spouse who is not all that he or she could be… and so on and so forth… such is the stuff that most personal dramas are all about.
Asking people about what concerns them [...]

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What is Personal Growth?

At birth, we were not much more than a clean slate and pure potential. We did not remain that way for long. By age three, parental influence already had laid the groundwork for what we would become. Some researchers claim that eighty percent of our character is already define while we are still toddlers.
As [...]

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Hormones and the State of Mind

We all know that hormones play an important part in our state of mind but it’s not something that is much talked about in the self-improvement world. The reason for that is probably due to the fact that the hormonal factor could easily be used as an excuse in a variety of situations to justify [...]

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Don’t Wish Life Were Easier Wish You Were Better

There are two ways that we can look at problem solving. There is the way that we would like to use to solve the problem and there is the way that we must use if we ever hope of solving it. That is particularly true when we find that the world is not turning the [...]

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Who Is Telling the Truth? – Who Should We Follow?

“Your time is limited, so don’t waste it living someone else’s life. Don’t be trapped by dogma – which is living with the results of other people’s thinking. Don’t let the noise of other’s opinions drown out your own inner voice. And most important, have the courage to follow your heart and intuition.” – Steve [...]

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Dare to Be All You Can Be

Why play in the minor league when there is room for you with the pros? Life is a one time deal and no one knows how long it will last so, no chance should be taken and each of those precious days should be packed with action and excitement.
There are two ways that we [...]

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Criticism and the Teflon Man

The difference between the mover/shakers and the could-have-been is how well they can handle criticism, failures and rejections. Unless someone can assume the Teflon Man attitude, the chances of getting anywhere in life are pretty slim.
The Teflon Man has learned to handle criticism and the unfavorable opinions of the cynics and the skepticals. He [...]

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The Comfort Zone and Stagnation

You can’t learn how to swim if you don’t get in the pool and you can’t learn and grow sitting in front of the TV. Life is about venturing out and meeting new challenges and not about hiding our head in the sand in a futile effort to ward off possible dangers or deceptions. [...]

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Get a Guru – Get a Life

There’s a proverb that says, “What you don’t know cannot hurt you.” That proverb should not be taken literally. In most cases, ignorance is not an asset. The more that we know, the more effective and prepared we are to meet successfully life’s challenges.
That is especially true when it comes to the art of [...]

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Dream Big But Keep your Feet on the Ground

You can’t read a book; attend a lecture or a seminar on success without getting the proverbial advice telling you that you should dream big. Nothing wrong with that… so long as you keep both feet on the ground.
The big dream is like the North Star. If the dream is really big, it should [...]

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The Only Way of Making it to the Top

Hate to tell you this, but unless you enjoy doing what you do, there is no way that you can make it to the top and even if you defied all odds and actually made it… it would not be worth it. Rule number one for true success is: enjoy yourself.
That’s a lesson that [...]

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How to Use Symbols and Metaphors for Success

How would you like to have someone pat you on the back ten times a day to remind you what a great person that you are? Would that not be a great source of motivation and a super boost for the self-esteem?
To constantly perform at peak level, we need to recharge our bank of [...]

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Lessons on Career Success from the Sport World

When we stop and think about it, there is not much difference between the rules that governs our career and the ones that are to be found in the sport world. Basically, the top performers in both fields are the ones who are best rewarded and they also are the ones who are the most [...]

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Demanding a Little More of Ourselves

“When people ask me what really change my life eight years ago, I tell them that absolutely the most important thing was changing what I demanded of myself.” – Anthony Robbins in Awaken the Giant Within
In the long run, some little things can turn out to mean a lot. Constantly demanding of yourself that you [...]

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How to Get Out of an Impasse

You wake up one good morning and realize that it seems as if you’re facing a blank wall. There are no issues, nowhere to go. Not a good feeling at all. Panic might not be far off. So what do you do?
The very first thing that you need to do is to get a yellow [...]

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