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Personal Integrity – Pathway to Success

Abraham Lincoln said, “You can fool some of the people all of the time, and all of the people some of the time, but you can not fool all of the people all of the time.” And William Shakespeare said, “Honesty is the best policy. If I lose mine honor, I lose myself.” These two [...]

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How to Handle the Fear of Rejection

No one will dispute the fact that fear of rejection is one of the major reason why people fail to take action. Dreams are put on the shelves and some of the more promising projects will never see the light of day because of that fear. Anyone who ever hopes to achieve anything significant will [...]

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How to Increase the Quality of our Life

We live in two very distinct worlds. There is the objective world where a tree is a tree and a rock is a rock. That is a world over which we have limited control. It’s a world governed by the laws of physics and the laws of nature. There may be some magic in this [...]

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Two Steps to a Winning Personality

Over seventy years ago, Dale Carnegie wrote the classic, How to Win Friend and Influence People. It’s all about human relationships and how to be more effective when dealing with people. It’s a great book but it’s not very practical. Who can walk around, meet people and try to recall some fifty different rules that [...]

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The Actualization of our Potential

Most people who are in Personal Development set goals and objectives. That is highly commendable. That’s part of Personal Development 101. One of the first thing that we learn when we start studying the subject. No book on self-improvement ever fails to cover goal setting however what is often missed is the real reason that [...]

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The Dream Killer – How to Avoid It

These are the opening words of the fantastic book by Anthony Robbins, Awaken the Giant Within. ‘WE ALL HAVE DREAMS… We all want to believe deep down in our souls that we have a special gift, that we can make a difference, that we can touch others in a special way, and that we can [...]

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Change the Way You See the World – Change You ...

Albert Einstein said, “Man tries to make for himself in the fashion that suits him best a simplified and intelligible picture of the world.” It is true that each of us has his own simplified view of the world but the simplification does not stop there. We reduce it even further so that it can [...]

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The Number One Cause of Failure

The Number One Cause of Failure – How to Fix it After spending over three decades in self-improvement and hearing the stories of hundreds of people who are still struggling, the number one observation that stands out above all other is that, people fail to achieve success because they cannot get themselves to take action. [...]

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How to Get out of a Rut

It is said that the only difference between a rut and a grave is the fact that one is deeper than the other. That may be accurate or not but it is a hard fact that being in either of those place really stinks. The main reason that it does stink is that it creates [...]

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The Secret of a Successful Day

Quality days make for a successful life. That’s obvious. However, what may not be as obvious is that we are the ones who, through our actions, determine the quality of our days and thus what our life will be like. Days are bricks in the edifice of our life. Each one counts and each one [...]

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The Personal Planner – A tool for success

Over two decades ago I asked one of my very prosperous friend what the secret of his success was. He went on to explain that whatever success that he was having was mainly due to the fact that he constantly worked with a Personal Planner. The notion resonated with me and I have been using [...]

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Stay hungry. Stay foolish.

Steve Jobs, CEO of Apple Computer, ended his commencement speech to the graduates of Stanford University in 2005 with the following words, “Stay hungry. Stay Foolish.” It would be fair to say that most of the hundred of thousands who have heard or read the speech probably have forgot everything about that allocution except these [...]

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What shapes you? – What guides our behavior?

If we want to be on control of our behavior and if we want to know the reason that people act as they do, we must understand what shapes us and what guides or behavior. There are two major elements that shape us and direct our behavior. These are, the way we see the world [...]

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The importance of small distinctions

It is the small distinctions that we have made in the past that have brought us were we are presently in life and it is the small distinctions that we will make in the future that will lead us to or away from our intended targets. Huge and very important decisions that will influence our [...]

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How to get promoted and climb the ladder of success

There is a law of physic that says, “Water seeks its own level.” That law confirms the fact that until a substance has completely filled the place that it is presently occupying, it cannot fill a larger vessel. That is true in physic and its also true in life. Before attempting to fill. or occupy, [...]

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The power of the state of mind

How well or how badly we perform at any given moment depends mostly on the state of mind we were in at the time. Understanding that premise and understanding it well could be one of the most powerful lesson that we’ll ever learn in our lifetime. Have you ever said anything, or come up with [...]

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How to affect changes in our life

When the time comes in our life that a change must made, the first thing that must be done is to raise our standards. Albert Einstein said, “The significant problems we face today cannot be solved at the same level of thinking we were at when we created them.” Unless a fundamental change is made [...]

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We must be, before we can do, before we can have

It would be safe to say that most people who are interested in self-improvement are also interested in having more money and other material possessions. Most personal goal lists include the expensive car, the big house and the fat bank account. Nothing wrong with that. What may be wrong though, is the way that people [...]

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Success defined

Most people are eager to succeed but paradoxically most of these same people could not define what success is. For the most part, success is seen as money. It is believed that money would solve all problems therefore, having money would mean being a success. Not so. People with tons of money are miserable and [...]

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